I Miss My Ex Boyfriend – How To Reconcile With Your Ex Boyfriend. What if you had learned to do this the right way and gotten him or her back. What if you had been able to attract your ex again and build a new relationship with him or her, instead of letting them go forever. What if, you had taken this opportunity that’s in front of you; an opportunity to receive forgiveness for anything you feel you may have done wrong. Another chance to make your ex fall in love with you again. You feel it within yourself that if your ex should give you another chance, you will never let go again. Surely, you wouldn’t throw an opportunity away like this, to get your ex to love you again.
The Possibility Of Getting Back Together With An Ex
Even if you cheated on your ex there’s still a chance for you. You may ask me how do I know. If Hollywood celebrities could reconcile and get back together with their ex’s, Rihanna and Chris Brown got back together after the conflict and tumult. I bet yours didn’t cause an earth shaking effect. You can get your ex back;
How to get your ex back – More than 90% of everyone who has been ever in a relationship has experienced a breakup at least once. If this is your first breakup experience, my heart goes to you. If you do whatever it takes, I believe you will get your ex back just like many others were successful. I once got my ex back, so I’m rooting for you. Just in a moment I will show you the exact same strategies and where I got all the information I used in getting my ex back. But, I want you to be aware of certain reality that will prepare your mind before you start using any of the strategies.
1. Be Determined And Courageous
Just like I mentioned earlier “More than 90% of everyone who was ever in a relationship has experienced a breakup at least once”, what if you aren’t one of those that chicken out easily? You want your ex back in love with you. And you are searching for the right words to say to your ex, wanting to know the right steps to take and exactly what to do to win him or her back even if he or she has a new found boyfriend or girlfriend. Yes, I don’t want you ignorant of the fact that your ex may already be dating another lover. That’s exactly what happened to me. That’s why I’m taking my time to encourage you, so you wouldn’t be discouraged along as you make move to getting your ex back.
2. Avoid the Temptation
Take no interest in side attractions or momentarily satisfaction. As you try to get your ex back you might be tempted to have sex with him or her. I have seen this happen several times – particularly when your ex says he or she can accept to be a friend for the moment (friends with benefits) or especially when you get to the point where you have established communication with your ex – which you will also learn to do at the program organized by the relationship coach that helped me when I had breakup issues. I’m just trying to prepare your mind so you wouldn’t end up making the same mistakes many ladies make that could blow-up your chances of getting back together. Remember that your aim is to get your ex back in love with you, back into your home if you were married, back into commitment (because no relationship is real without commitment), the aim is to establish him or her as your soul mate again.
3. Never Try To Make Your Ex Jealous
Decide – You’re not going to Flirt with guys your Ex knows, hoping that he or she will get jealous when they hear about it. Trying to make your ex jealous with an aim to make him or her desire you is one of the worst moves or action you can take. Lots of ladies tell me they already make this mistake in about 2 months after break up. By making them jealous you are actually showing them that you have moved on and he or she should do the same.
Right now, I am about to show you how to contact your ex and establish communication with him or her. If your ex has been very stubborn and has been unwilling to respond positively or have any form of communication with you, you need to take the steps listed at a few paragraphs below with the title; “What To Do When Your Ex Will Not Communicate”.
4. Demonstrate Humility
Your change starts here, I mean change of your attitude. If the breakup was instigated by a conflict, most probably you always viewed things and spoke from your own perspective. It’s time to view things from your ex’s point of view. It’s time to agree with your ex. This is where you begin to agree with your ex concerning everything he or she previously said about you. Doubtless, it’s time to send your ex a message conveying the understanding that you agree to see things from his or her own point of view. Let your ex know that you trust in his or her wisdom, that you trust them, that you belief in their future, that you belief he or she is going to have a great future. They your ex what you value in their personality.
5. Time to Agree
Agreement is the first quality of humility. When you agree with someone, you’re not arguing with that person. Let the other person have his or her way first. Agree now, then discuss or negotiate later. It’s a patient way of avoiding conflict but settling the issue at hand at a later and favorable time.
The first thing you should say to your ex is “words of agreement”. Agree with your ex concerning every issue or conflict you’ve ever had. Right about now, you might be all worried and scared that you may never be able to get him or her back to you. Although, the reality is that couples break up and later get back together almost always time after they have been able to set the course right. Each day all over the world lovers decide to get back together even if one partner cheated or really screwed up. We see it all over the media these days, amongst Hollywood Celebrities, I mean all over. This is what I call receiving instant forgiveness for your wrongs plus it’s a relevant part of love that existed in a relationship. Also, there should be no doubt that your ex still has some element of love for you. However, you will have to act maturely and speak wisely in order for an ex to forgive you for the wrongs you do or for cheating.
6. Act Maturely And Speak With Wisdom
A little reality – Anyone who has been wronged by a lover has the tendency to be offended. But, if he or she is wise and mature, he or she would realize that he or she needs to forgive you when you come up with a reasonable plea. Listen to this – Nobody Ever Screws Up, Right? – Reminiscence back and attempt to remember if your ex ever slip-up or did something that actually offended you. Has he or she ever been on the guilty side of this equation? Did he or she ever slip-up and say things that really upset you? You can remember instances if you reminisce more, when your ex got you offended, he or she asked for your forgiveness and you forgave him or her. The relationship went on and you began to trust him or her again, love him or her again and feel those loving thoughts for him or her again in spite of what he or she put you through. Both of you totally forgot about the issue, got over it, stopped focusing on what took place and you simply loved each other for better.
Tell him or her you wake up every morning remembering the mistakes you did that led to the breakup, that you are sorry you hurt him or her, that you can’t believe you actually did that to someone (him or her) whom you loved so much. Tell him or her you love him or her so much that’s why you can never forget your wrong mistakes. Tell him or her that he or she’s forgiving you will be the best and greatest favor you have ever received and possibly receive for the next 20 years. Let him or her know that the future of the relationship you two had has a promising joy. Tell him or her you can do more for him or her than you have ever done.
Agree with you ex
Act maturely and speak with wisdom
Speak in support of his future
7. Support His or Her Future
Men are visionaries; we want to accomplish something with our lives. That’s why we are not lazy when we’ve got some job to do. A man would love you, keep you as one close to his heart if you are interested in his personal progress and success. When he or she sees how you speak of his establishment and progress in life, he or she will be utterly amazed.
Tell him or her you believe in him or her. Tell him or her you believe he or she is going to have a great future. Tell him or her you are going to stand by his side. Tell him or her you’re going to support him or her all through to his success.
8. Draw Him Or Her Into Getting Involved In Your Life Again
By getting him or her involved in your life, I don’t mean you should date him or her yet. This strategic step aims at getting him or her into communicating with you again. You can start out by reminding him or her of a pleasant moment you two shared together.
9. Contacting Him Or Her Again – A Text Message To Send
Hi Jane/John, I just grabbed some sushi at that amazing restaurant on Wallstreet. Made me think of how you were Nice & how you made me happy. Tell me, how have you been?
That text message above works especially when your ex hasn’t communicated with you for a while.
If he replies, you have to send him or her another message that will set up a reason to resume and establish communication again. A message like this:
Text message 1
Tell your ex “You want to discuss something serious with him or her, & he or she is the only one you can discuss with”.
If your ex asks you what it is, just tell him/her it’s not a thing you can discuss on phone but, you need his or her opinion, or help.
Text message; Alternative 2
You might also tell Him you want to share some “good news” with him or her,—and then leave him/her in suspense, about what the news is.
When you are ready to send these text messages you have to be ready to continue conversation with your ex. Getting your ex to talk to you isn’t the problem. How to get him or her into a new, lasting and better relationship again is what you truly need.
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What To Do When Your Ex Will Not Communicate
If your ex is very stubborn and is unwilling to have any form of communication with you, you need to take this next step. This is the same resource my friends and I used to get our ex’s back. It involves using psychological tactics. But, I want you to promise me that you are not planning to hurt your ex, promise that you will be the best lover your ex could dream of, promise you will use these resources only because you truly love your ex and you feel both of you are meant to be together.
Getting effective information from the internet on how to reconcile and get back into a relationship with an ex is not an impossible task. Especially if your ex is unwilling to have any form of communication with you. I remember what I did when I was desperate to get my ex back. I made use of Google search, Yahoo & Bing, combing through tons of websites & blogs. Yet, all I got couldn’t help me completely because my situation was different, in that I cheated on my ex and he was wouldn’t forgive me easily until a distant friend of mine led me to a relationship coach; you can watch his video below
Now, I can show you the same resources I applied that helped me get my ex back, my friends introduced it to me, he is a relationship coach and he has been featured on the Rachael Ray show, other few TV shows, Radio stations and tons of Blogs. And he advices you not only how to get an ex into communication, but also gives a complete system or strategy on what to Say and all you must Do to make your ex committed to you – into a new relationship. Isn’t that awesome? You can get to his Blog via this link: How To Reconcile With An Ex
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